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We Haven’t Lost Christianity – We’re Losing Christendom

We Haven’t Lost Christianity – We’re Losing Christendom

Let’s make something painfully clear: Christianity isn’t dead. But Christendom - the societal framework, cultural stronghold, and masculine spiritual order that upheld it - is on life support.Not because of atheists, politicians, or persecution - but because we let it...

The Lie of Skipping Failure: Why Dodging the Word Sets You Back

The Lie of Skipping Failure: Why Dodging the Word Sets You Back

In today’s corporate echo chamber of “fail fast, fail forward,” failure has been stripped of its bite. We've anesthetized the word, coddled it in motivational jargon, and tried to sidestep the sting it delivers. You’ll hear people say, “There are no failures, only...

What Leading Your Marriage Looks Like

What Leading Your Marriage Looks Like

Hard truth: When a man crowns his wife “CEO of the family” to earn feminist brownie points, he’s not being virtuous, he’s abdicating his God-given role.He trades biblical headship for cultural appeasement. And he puts his family at risk. Men are meant to lead.Not as...

Going Pro: 5 Essential Resources Every Serious Writer Needs

Going Pro: 5 Essential Resources Every Serious Writer Needs

FTC Disclosure:  Consider each and every link on this site as a commercial relationship or affiliate link, wherein we receive a financial benefit in return for recommending great products we would recommend anyway. Caveat Emptor. Amateurs dabble. Professionals...

Out Of The Cave

Out Of The Cave

Into the cave I drew,A captive of my own ambition, Greed had forged the chains I knew,Blind to purpose, lost to mission. In the cave, I toiled in vain, For enemies my past had made. The cost of pride was clear and plain, A debt I never thought be paid.  In the cave,...

Lessons From a Weathered Truck: Why the Old Roads Matter

Lessons From a Weathered Truck: Why the Old Roads Matter

Owning an old truck is a unique experience. It’s not just a vehicle—it’s a collection of stories, lessons, and memories wrapped in steel and rust. It rattles, groans, and sometimes downright refuses to cooperate. But there’s a kind of wisdom that comes with driving...

11 Points of Discernment: The Hidden Superpower of High-Performers

11 Points of Discernment: The Hidden Superpower of High-Performers

In a world drowning in chaos and information overload, discernment emerges as the ultimate superpower for those who dare to rise above the mediocrity. It's not just about making good choices; it's about having the courage to confront the unknown and the wisdom to...