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What Leading Your Marriage Looks Like
Hard truth: When a man crowns his wife “CEO of the family” to earn feminist brownie points, he’s not being virtuous, he’s abdicating his God-given role.He trades biblical headship for cultural appeasement. And he puts his family at risk. Men are meant to lead.Not as...
Going Pro: 5 Essential Resources Every Serious Writer Needs
FTC Disclosure: Consider each and every link on this site as a commercial relationship or affiliate link, wherein we receive a financial benefit in return for recommending great products we would recommend anyway. Caveat Emptor. Amateurs dabble. Professionals...
Out Of The Cave
Into the cave I drew,A captive of my own ambition, Greed had forged the chains I knew,Blind to purpose, lost to mission. In the cave, I toiled in vain, For enemies my past had made. The cost of pride was clear and plain, A debt I never thought be paid. In the cave,...
By Letting Them, Are You Letting Yourself Off The Hook? A Critical Analysis of The Let Them Theory: Does It Hold Up to Scrutiny?
FTC Disclosure: We use commercial affiliate links and may receive compensation for any products, services, or books mentioned in our posts.In an era dominated by self-help mantras and viral wisdom, The Let Them Theory has captured the public’s imagination, promising a...
Lessons From a Weathered Truck: Why the Old Roads Matter
Owning an old truck is a unique experience. It’s not just a vehicle—it’s a collection of stories, lessons, and memories wrapped in steel and rust. It rattles, groans, and sometimes downright refuses to cooperate. But there’s a kind of wisdom that comes with driving...
Available Now: The Heroik Writer’s Workbook – 30 Exercises to Help You Craft Compelling Stories
FTC Disclosure: Consider each and every link on this site as a commercial relationship or affiliate link, wherein we receive a financial benefit in return for recommending great products we would recommend anyway. Caveat Emptor. This $12 workbook isn’t just another...
The Woke Agenda Taking Over The Church: 20 Key Takeaways from Shepherds for Sale by Megan Basham
Megan Basham’s Shepherds for Sale doesn’t tiptoe around the uncomfortable truth: there’s a growing infiltration of leftist ideology in the church. If you think the church is a sanctuary from political warfare, you’re mistaken. This book isn’t just a warning—it’s a...
11 Points of Discernment: The Hidden Superpower of High-Performers
In a world drowning in chaos and information overload, discernment emerges as the ultimate superpower for those who dare to rise above the mediocrity. It's not just about making good choices; it's about having the courage to confront the unknown and the wisdom to...
11 Paths to Financial Freedom: Embracing Side Hustles
In a world teetering on the edge of economic uncertainty, the pursuit of additional revenue streams isn't just advisable—it's a moral imperative. The following list presents 11 pragmatic side jobs that not only bolster your financial resilience but also challenge the...
12 Unapologetic Principles for the Modern Man’s Ascent: Forging an Indomitable Life in a Chaotic World
In a world teeming with mediocrity and moral decay, the path of the discerning masculine man stands in stark contrast. This isn't a guide for the faint-hearted or those seeking comfort in the mundane. It's a blueprint for men who dare to rise above the cacophony of...
11 Transformative Truths About Freelancing That Will Make You Rich (If You Can Handle Them)
1. Stop Being a Doormat: Your Time is Worth More Than You Think Listen, if you're still charging peanuts for your services, you're not just leaving money on the table - you're burning it. Your skills are rare, and rare things are valuable. Start acting like it. Raise...
Master the Art of Negotiation: 13 Power Moves Every Man Needs to Know
In life, every interaction is a negotiation. Whether you're closing a business deal, navigating relationships, or simply trying to get a better price on your morning coffee, your ability to negotiate effectively can make or break your success. Here are ten power moves...
The Discerning Man’s Dojo: 20 Mental Deadlifts from ‘The Work’ to Forge Unbreakable Masculine Resolve
Attention. You're about to embark on a mental crucible that will either break you or forge you into something greater. This isn't your standard self-help drivel. We're diving deep into Byron Katie's "The Work," extracting its raw essence and reforging it into a...
Be The Man: 10 Powerful Ways Real Men Embody Gospel Love Through Action
Gospel love is not a passive sentiment; it is an active, transformative force. In a world that often promotes comfort and inaction, men are called to rise up and embody this love in tangible ways. Here are ten powerful ways real men can live out gospel love through...
14 Must Watch Movies: Your Pre-Adventure Video Playlist
In preparation for any worthy adventure, I love to set the vibe with a playlist . This is a list of my top picks for adventures about survival, the wilderness, and having a gung-ho, adventurous and imaginative outlook towards life.1. Don Quixote - With John Lithgow...
AMA – Ask Me Anything
Welcome to The Discerning Man ask me anything. Feel free to ask a question or propose a topic you'd like me to cover. I'll update this post with my responses.
Are Social Platforms Guilty of Digital Human Trafficking?
Are Social Platforms Guilty of Digital Human Trafficking? In today's digitized world, it's crucial to dissect the impact social media platforms are having on our psyches, freedom, and society at large. The question arises, "Are Social Platforms akin to...
Bird By Bird – How to Endure The Emotional Rollercoaster of Writing a Book
FTC Disclosure: Consider each and every link on this site as a commercial relationship or affiliate link, wherein we receive a financial benefit in return for recommending great products we would recommend anyway. Caveat Emptor. TL;DR: If you’re serious about...
8 Writing Exercises & Why You Should Read “Invisible Ink” by Brian McDonald
FTC Disclosure: Consider each and every link on this site as a commercial relationship or affiliate link, wherein we receive a financial benefit in return for recommending great products we would recommend anyway. Caveat Emptor.TLDR - Quit fucking around when it...
15 TakeAways From “Save The Cat” and Why You Should Read It
FTC Disclosure: Consider each and every link on this site as a commercial relationship or affiliate link, wherein we receive a financial benefit in return for recommending great products we would recommend anyway. Caveat Emptor. TL;DR: If you want to write stories...